Practicing Awareness of Microaggressions

During this week, I witnessed a form of microinsults and/or microinvalidation.  One of the parents decided to correct the assigned teacher and her assistant about the pronunciation of her child’s name.  As Americans, and having a thorough knowledge of English grammar and phonics, the teachers that interact with her son, were pronouncing his name without the Latin accent.  The teacher disregarded it as being unimportant.  She stated, “Why didn't she inform us of that at the beginning of the school year.  Why now?”  The assistant teacher felt like the child doesn't know the difference anyway.  “Besides we are not Spanish speaking people; everyone can’t roll their tongues”.    These are the hidden messages that Dr. Sue was referring to in the Microaggressions video.  I’m not sure if it was intentional or unintentional, because the teachers didn't express this to the parent.  They only discussed it in private, but their attitude of not rendering respect to the parent’s wishes and the child’s identity was shocking.  I definitely disagree with both because they can at least put forth the effort to try to pronounce the child’s name correctly and even though the child is only 2, he is picking up on different behaviors within his learning environment and with the attitudes of these teachers, it could cause an early onset of psychological stress (Microaggression in Everyday Life).  As he develops, he could become embarrassed by his culture or heritage and lose that part of his identity in order to fit in with society or people who share their attitude.   From this observation experience, I see how easily it is to engage in microaggression, as adults, and use it towards children regardless of their age.  This also was an indication of how we must improve our professional development requirements.  If I was the administrator, and this was brought to my attention, both of them would be attending Anti-Bias Educational Classes.    

Reference
Laureate Education, Inc. (2011).  Microaggressions in Everyday Life.  (Mulitmedia Presentation).

Perspectives on Diversity and Culture

I recently asked the following people about their definition of culture and diversity.  Their responses are:

Ruthie, my 58 year old mother:  "A person’s way of life; their lifestyle, beliefs, values, and what is the norm for them is their culture.  Diversity is just a fancy word for being different."

Kyna, a 36 year old friend:  "I look at diversity as being a part of their race. but a person’s culture helps identify them.  How you are raised also defines your culture.  Depending on the country you leave in determines your own culture.  It's just a lot of things."

 

Brianna, my 9 year old daughter:  "A person’s culture is proof of people being different (diversity) from other people.  Culture includes things around you like your family.  Describing culture is really hard." 

I chose different age ranges to demonstrate how over time people's concepts of diversity and culture develops.  As I reflect on what I've learned and listen to what my friends and family have shared with me, I’m reminded of how complex culture can be.  According to Chapter 5 of Anti-Bias Education for Young Children and Ourselves, culture refers to how particular groups of people live (Sparks & Edwards, 2010).  Everything we do reflects our individual cultures.  Mostly people view culture as the difference between ethnic groups but it is possible for the Asian culture to share some of the same beliefs as a non Asian culture.  It’s even possible for African American families to share the same ethnicity but have different approaches to their everyday living.  By listening to how others define diversity, I perceive that diversity goes hand in hand with culture because of the uniqueness of it.  There’s no way to identify culture but not recognize diversity.

Reference:
Derman-Sparks, L. & Edwards, J. O. (2010).  Anti-Bias Education for Young Children and Ourselves. National Association for the Education of Young Children, Washington, D.C.

My Family Culture

A major catastrophe has almost completely devastated the infrastructure of your country. The emergency government has decided that the surviving citizens will be best served if they are evacuated to other countries willing to take refugees. You and your immediate family are among the survivors of this catastrophic event. However, you have absolutely no input into the final destination or in any other evacuation details. You are told that your host country’s culture is completely different from your own, and that you might have to stay there permanently. You are further told that, in addition to one change of clothes, you can only take 3 small items with you. You decide to take three items that you hold dear and that represent your family culture.

• A description of the three items you would choose

The three items I would take with me will be identification documents, valuable family heirlooms, and pictures. 

• How you would explain to others what each of these items means to you

The legal documents may be useful in the new country and if I'm ever to return to my previous country, I will have them to help me transition. Having anything of value will help me to survive in the new country. I can use things of value to barter with. Taking pictures with me will help me remember and express our family history. It will remind us of what life was like before the catastrophe and help gives us hope for what we will return to one day. 

• Your feelings if, upon arrival, you were told that you could only keep one personal item and have to give up the other two items you brought with you

It would sadden me even more to have to give up the little I have left. I probably would give up the legal documents that identify me since now that I'm in a new country, they will want to recreate that information for me based on their classification system. I would hold on to what is valuable and as many keepsake items I have. 

•       Any insights you gained about yourself, your family culture, diversity, and/or cultural differences in general, as a result of this exercise.

I am closer with my immediate family versus my entire family. I rarely see and interact with them unless its holiday functions, graduations, wedding or funeral ceremonies, etc. Losing my immediate family will be more devastating and have a greater impact on me than losing a distant relative. So, it definitely makes a difference not having a relationship with someone but being related to them. Even within your family their can be a culture diversity.